Stephen King and the Culture of Life

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In this episode of Life on Film, Life TV discusses movie adaptions of Stephen King stories and how they relate to the Culture of Life

I wouldn’t mind seeing more pro-life, Christian filmmakers take a similar approach to some of their movies. A movie does not have to be explicitly about abortion to be “pro-life.” That’s what I loved about In America, for example. In many ways, the culture of death, itself, is not even really just about abortion — or euthanasia or what-have-you; it is, as the Life on Film crew notes, largely about despair and a lack of hope, not to mention our inability to meaningfully connect with human suffering.

The Catholic Church Cannot Get You Pregnant

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A few weeks ago we ran an article at Catholic Lane about new data on why women have abortions. Someone choosing to go by the name “choiceone” left the following brilliant comment (click both images to enlarge):

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Poor dear. She(?) thought she was so clever. I love the response from my EIC predecessor at Catholic Lane:

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As hard as it is to believe, I’ve heard “choiceone”‘s ridiculous argument a number of times, blaming the Catholic Church for unplanned pregnancies (as well as the spread of AIDS in Africa). A few other points for Mr./Ms. Choiceone:

1. The Catholic Church does a great deal to provide for women during and after crisis pregnancies. Pregnancy centers throughout the country are owned and operated by faithful Catholics. Those centers are also financially supported by their fellow Catholics and local Catholic churches.

And, of course, we cannot overlook incredible people like the Donaghys who have adopted so-called “unwanted” babies who would otherwise have been aborted.

2. It should go without saying, but, if people followed what the Church actually teaches about chastity and human sexuality, out of wedlock “crisis pregnancies” (and AIDS, for that matter) would not be the major problem that they are. The Catholic Church condemns contraception while at the same time promoting sexual intercourse as an act exclusive to marriage. If a woman is listening to the church regarding contraception and ignoring the church regarding premarital sex and openness to life, that’s not the Church’s fault.

Clearly, the majority of the women and their partners who find themselves dealing with a “crisis pregnancy” and contemplating abortion are NOT following the Catholic Church’s teaching on human sexuality. In fact, not only are most of them having sex outside marriage, the majority of women who get abortions were on or had used some form of birth control during the month they became pregnant.

3. Which brings me to my final question: If so many people, Catholics and non-Catholics alike, ignore the Church on so many of these issues, why do they so desperately want her to change her teachings? Why do they even care?

The Best Worst Dog That Ever Lived

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R.I.P. Crash Monster (1999-2013)
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Like most people, I’m sure, I had hoped that my dog would die comfortably and peacefully with me at home. But he had other plans.

As long as he didn’t appear to be suffering terribly, I kept putting off bringing him in to have him put down. But, no matter how many times I told him it was okay to go — begged him to, prayed for him to — he refused. He just slept. And slept. And by Monday morning it was clear that he was going to force me to bring him in. He wasn’t just sleeping peacefully anymore and I knew that I could not let it go on any longer.

“Dammit, Crash. Don’t you know that I am against euthanasia?”

“Yeah, for humans.”

Brat.

As terrified as I was, I made myself stay in the room with him when they did it — after they let me have a lot of time to get the courage to finally let him go…for good. And, naturally, it was every bit as heartbreaking as I always feared that it would be.

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Here lies Crash. He was the best of dogs, he was the worst of dogs. And he died the way he lived: stubborn — right up to the very end.

I’ve read several stories of doggie loss over the years, many of which wax sentimental on the various lessons of life and love that their faithful canine companions taught them. I’m not sure I have anything like that to offer about my Crashy.

I suppose if he taught me anything, it was patience. Lots of patience. We called him Crash Monster for a reason. He was constantly getting into things he shouldn’t get into. Mostly trash or any food that was mildly within his reach. And he never met a pair of dirty underwear he didn’t like.

Ahh! But he did manage to bring me considerable happiness and many joyful memories, despite his monstrosity. He was my baby boy, my handsome man, my fuzzy valentine and just a major part of my life for the past nearly 14 years. It’s so hard adjusting to the fact that he’s really gone.

Our first and last pictures together:

December 1999 — in the hospital shortly after my car accident.
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October 2013 — one of his last days.
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One of his favorite things:

Lazy afternoon dog break. Another one of his favorite things:

Spoiled Rotten from Chelsea Zimmerman on Vimeo.

“The Church teaches that there are no animals in heaven, since the beasts lack immortal souls. Far be it from me to question the doctors of the Church, but I cannot help but wonder if their reasoning is sound. Would God deprive a man of the companionship of his favorite hound, a dog the man raised from a pup, an loved? I sometimes wonder if, in the same way Christ gives part of his divinity to us to elevate us beyond the state of mortal men, we men, when we love the lower animals, grant something of our soul to them, so that God can make a way to keep them with us in the next life. But this is merely speculation: there may be something better—I know not what—than even this.” -John C. Wright, On the Garden of Paradise

For in him were created all things in heaven and on earth, the visible and the invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers; all things were created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. -Colossians 1:16-17

More Crash:
Say Hello to My Little Friend
My Valentine
My Fuzzy Valentine
Prayers for Crashkor the Luckdragon

Camels, Cartoons and Plan B

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Population Research Council has released a new video using cartoons to break down the complexities of pregnancy, illustrating how the drug affects ovulation, conception, and implantation. Characters on camels represent the sperm and their journey, while a lumbering elephant carrying a round little figure represent the female egg and its journey. Palaces, dust storms, and even an Oregon Trail video game reference depict how the drug works.

They have also created an informational page on their website where people can learn more about Plan B as well as some of the media conversation around the drug. The video leaves no doubt that Plan B operates, the vast majority of the time, by causing abortions.

Prayers for Crashkor the Luckdragon

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It’s starting to become pretty clear that my beloved Crash monster probably will not be with me much longer. Longtime readers will recall that crash-cute2.jpgCrash was a gift to me from some dear neighbors after the car accident that paralyzed me. Which makes this old man 14 years old this year. Not a bad run, as doggy lifespans go and I know his has been a very happy one — for both of us (even if he did drive me crazy sometimes).

I’m still awaiting the results of some blood work from yesterday to see if anything more serious is going on. Otherwise, he’s just an old, old, old, old man. A combination of vision/hearing loss seems to be making him very disoriented — besides the fact that, according to my vet, old dogs can become senile just like old people. So, he mostly just sleeps a lot. He’s still eating some, which is good. But definitely not as much as he was.

As hard as it was losing my sweet Coco Kitty last year, I know this is going to be ten times worse for me. So, I could use some prayers as well, especially since my fear and anxiety about death has not changed much.

“Having a luck dragon with you is the only way to go on a quest.” The past 14 years has been quite a quest for me physically, spiritually, emotionally, and I have been very blessed to have Crash accompany me along the way. He’s a monster, but I love him.

Danny and Annie

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When a guy is happily married, no matter what happens at work, no matter what happens the rest of the day, there’s a shelter when you get home. There’s a knowledge, knowing that you can hug somebody without them throwing you down the stairs and saying get your hands off me. Being married is like having a color television set; you never want to go back to black and white. -Danny Perasa

Danny and his wife, Annie, recount their twenty-seven-year romance. Super sweet.

Last week, Pope Francis told young people in Asissi to have the “courage” to marry and start a family in this world that “(privileges) individual rights rather than the family”.

Christian marriage, he said, is a “real vocation, just like priesthood and religious life are. Two Christians who marry each other have recognized in their love story the Lord’s call, the vocation to form one flesh, one life from the two, male and female.”

“Don’t be afraid of taking definitive steps, like that of marriage.”

Star Trek, Pope Francis and TOB for the Aged

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After I wrote this post about an episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation that I thought responsibly handled disability and assisted suicide, I was informed by multiple people about another episode of TNG that seemed to be a little more pro-suicide.

ST-TNG.pngThe episode was Half a Life and it involved a planet on which all of its members voluntarily commit suicide at the age of 60 in order to avoid old age, infirmity, indignity, dependence on others, and the cruel uncertainty about when the end would come. I wouldn’t exactly call the episode PRO-suicide at all. Everyone eventually seemed to agree that it was a stupid custom, though they ultimately didn’t do anything to try to end it.

Actually, there are very strong arguments for letting life continue on its natural course, despite the pain and uncertainty that is to come. This time it was Deanna Troi’s mother who was the major champion for the sanctity of life. What is it about those Betazoids? Here is a pretty good exchange between Lwaxana Troi and Dr. Timicin:

“No, no, you’re not cruel to them. You just kill them.” BOOM! “What you’re really saying is, you got rid of the problem by getting rid of the people.” BAM! “What about the responsibility of caring for the elderly?” POW!

As our bodies deteriorate and we lose our independence and control of some of our basic bodily functions, we are still human beings. Our lives still have meaning. This can really be understood in light of John Paul II’s Theology of the Body. While our late pope’s masterpiece is often considered as little more than a teaching on sex and marriage, the TOB is much more. It is JPII’s vision of the human person, as a whole, and what it means to be made in the “image and likeness of God.” Therefore, as Christopher West likes to say, “If you have a body, the TOB is for you!”

Over at Catholic Mom, Cynthia Ann Costello writes on the TOB for the aged:

The body being a gift is one of the major themes of TOB. Initially, we begin to think of the talents we are given as our gifts to the world. Indeed the Gospels teach us not to bury these “gold coins”, but to multiply them for the Kingdom. As we age, however, our culture tends to discard persons who cannot maintain their former level of production. TOB teaches us that we cannot be defined only by what we can offer the world by way of “doing.” This is utilitarianism. Our lives have value simply in “being.” I wanted to encourage this group, that on a deeper level, “you are a gift.” You…. just being you…. is a gift.

Read more as she goes on to explain how our lives continue to be a gift as we age by turning from lives of action to lives of prayer and suffering. And how our crosses, which inevitably increase with age, make us mysteriously part of redemption for the whole world.

Speaking of our duty to care for the elderly, the other day, Pope Francis caused a bit of a stir when he called the loneliness of the old is one of “the most serious of the evils that afflict the world these days.” Kevin Tierney has the full context of the Holy Father’s words and says:

He says that at this moment, the biggest danger is not just unemployment and loneliness, but rather what they signify. What good is a society if they can’t take care of their elderly, and also cannot provide any hope for the future? Everyone is stuck in the tyranny of the present, which is a very nasty and brutish tyranny.

The Global Financial Collapse of 2008 changed a lot of what we know about the world. Unemployment has become nearly permanent for the youth, and across the globe the elderly have mostly been abandoned by their families. (Or worse yet, euthanasia.)…As many governments have enacted austerity in the wake of the crisis, the elderly have frequently been a casualty, as their personhood is reduced to numbers in an actuarial table. If you happen to be elderly and poor, well good luck.

In such a situation, it is next to impossible for the Gospel to take root. People won’t look to an eternal home when they don’t have much a chance of surviving in the present.

Read more.

Outsourcing Pregnancy Isn’t Fair

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Must read from Debra Saunders in response to an article about a Bay Area couple who paid an Indian woman to carry their child:
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I don’t think they’re bad people. I think the Kowalskis represent a prevalent view in American society – that when affluent childless couples want to have a baby, they have a right to have a baby, indeed, the exact baby they choose. If their decision risks the health of poor women, well, that’s OK, because the couple is acting out of love.

And if they sign a contract that turns a desperate woman into a mule who carries a child at the will of others? That’s OK too, because the couple paid good money that will help the poor woman’s family.

And if the poor woman is torn apart because she has bonded with the baby inside her? Doesn’t matter, the mule signed a contract.

The Kowalskis aren’t bad people. They’re decent people who live in a bad culture that tells them that outsourcing the gestation of their test-tube babies is a good thing. It’s a win-win.

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Teddy Kremer and the Reds: A Love Story

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It was one of the most heartwarming moments of the 2013 baseball season. On April 18, after a pep-talk from his “best friend and greatest batboy,” Cincinnati Reds third baseman Todd Frazier ripped a two-run homer to center field off John Maine, extending the Reds lead to 11-1 over the Miami Marlins in the sixth:

I know there’s no crying in baseball, but it still brings tears of utter joy to my eyes. What makes it even more poignant is that this beautiful moment might never have happened if Teddy Kremer’s parents had listened to the geneticist who told them 30 years ago after Teddy was born that he would never have more than a 40 IQ, possibly might never walk or talk and that they should put him in an institution.

Teddy’s life and his relationship with the Reds was recently profiled on the ESPN E:60 series.

I hope that geneticist is still around to see this.

I wish I could say that the world has improved its approach to a Down syndrome diagnosis in the past 30 years. Instead, modern academics have managed to recast “eugenics” as a positive term, distinguishing their vision from past government-mandated eugenics policies. The emphasis now is on “selective reproduction” and the parents’ “choice” to decide what kind of child they want to have. The result has been a search and destroy mission to wipe people with Down syndrome off of the planet through eugenic abortion. And it has taken so much love out of the world.

Just look at the pure, genuine & beautiful happiness on both Teddy’s and Todd’s faces and tell me Teddy should never have been born. I dare you.

Go Teddy! Go Reds!

Enterprise Ethics

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Warning: it’s about to get mighty nerdy up in here.

worf.jpgOne of my favorite television shows when I was younger was Star Trek: The Next Generation. I’ve been watching some old episodes of the series on Netflix and recently I was very surprised and impressed with an episode called “Ethics” and the way it dealt with the issue of disability and assisted suicide.

The episode opens with Lt. Worf getting his spinal cord crushed by a couple of barrels in the cargo bay. As it turns out, there is still no cure for spinal cord injury in the 24th century. Devastated by his diagnosis, Worf asks Comm. Riker to help him perform ritual suicide because, “When a klingon can no longer stand and face his enemies as a warrior, when he becomes a burden to his friends and family, it is time for the Hegh’bat. Time for him to die.”

worf2.pngThe real heroes of the episode are Riker and Counselor Troi who refuse to let Worf give up on his life. At one point, Riker confronts the wounded Klingon and reminds him of all the people on the ship who consider him a friend and owe him their lives and to think about how they might feel about his dying.

But, Troi definitely has the best line of the whole show when she tells Worf, “Maybe it’s time you stop lying here worrying about your honor and started thinking about about someone else. Like your son.”

When an otherwise able-bodied person has suicidal tendencies we consider it a cry for help, a sign that they are not emotionally or psychologically stable. Why does that view change when the suicidal person is sick or disabled?

The experience of a traumatic, life altering injury or disease affects a person mentally and emotionally just has it affects them physically. Your whole world suddenly changes and, as few people can really relate to such an experience, very often you are alone in that world with all its pain and challenges – envying the physical freedom of others (or your pre-injury self) and feeling slightly worthless or at least inadequate by comparison. A great tragedy occurs then when you are further isolated by people who, in misguided compassion, pity you for all that you can’t do or the pain you must endure, and justify your feelings of worthlessness.

While some people think that they are doing the loving thing by helping their loved one die, what they’re really doing is affirming the other in their fear and misery. How is that loving? Instead, the sick and disabled who ask for assisted suicide should be encouraged to re”bound” from feeling so hopeless and shown what they still have to live for.

As the late, great Fr. Richard Neuhaus beautifully put it: “As long as we are alive, we have all the life there is.” Whether we find ourselves terminally ill, permanently disabled, or facing some other permanent or transitory hardship, there is still some joy to be found amid the struggle. Suicide prevention should not be limited to the able-bodied.

Back aboard the Enterprise. When he’s told by Picard to have some respect for his friend and his Klingon customs, Riker makes another excellent point: “I can respect his beliefs, but he is asking me to take an active part in his committing suicide.”

This is the eyeless “I” of assisted suicide; it does not consider the consequences to others. “Death with dignity” is hailed as an exercise in personal autonomy, but the people claiming this “right” do not act alone. They require assistance — a coarsening of some other person’s conscience.

I don’t have the right to ask or demand something that may hurt others. There is a reason why most doctors oppose “physician assisted suicide.” Their job is to heal, not kill. As Dr. Crusher put it, “the first tenant of good medicine is never make the patient any worse.” You can’t get much worse than dead.

Some will argue that assisted suicide is about alleviating pain, but palliative care in the 21st Century has come so far as to be able to eliminate virtually all physical pain. No, assisted suicide is not about pain control; it’s about the illusion of personal control even over death.

Death is not a right. It is an eventuality that will visit us all. There is nothing dignified about withholding water and food or injecting poison into a person’s bloodstream when they are at their lowest point (or the Klingon custom of taking a knife to your own heart). Death with dignity is not an event; it is the natural result of having lived with dignity.

Finally, I really appreciate how the writers handled the reality of life after a spinal cord injury. More than once it was mentioned that people with SCIs can and do live very “normal”, active post injury lives. It is true and the majority of us with spinal cord injuries (and many other disabilities, for that matter) choose to live with our disability and find that there’s still quite a lot to enjoy about our lives.

That being said, ultimately in the show Worf ended up regaining all of his mobility — through a risky and purely experimental procedure. But, that did lead to a pretty great speech on medical ethics by Dr. Crusher.

This episode of Star Trek was a breath of fresh air to come across after what the entertainment industry has put out portraying this issue in recent years. If you don’t have Netflix, you can watch the episode online for free here.

I wish I could say that this is geekiest post I’ve ever done here, but there is this.

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Follow-up: After I originally wrote this article a few weeks ago, I was informed by multiple people about another episode of TNG that seemed to be a little more pro-suicide. See: Star Trek, Pope Francis and TOB for the Aged