Every Child Deserves a Chance at Greatness

ChelseaAbortion, AdoptionLeave a Comment

jobs-2.pngI’m loving this piece at the Washington Times from last month on Abortion, Adoption, and Steve Jobs. Author John Paul Cassil uses Jobs’ own words from a 2005 Stanford University commencement address describing his humble beginnings:

“It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife.

Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.”

And the rest, as they say, is history.

Today Ann Coulter tweeted:

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Now, of course we can’t say for sure that he would likely not have been born, but the chances of it would have definitely been higher, especially if his biological mother had asked Planned Parenthood what she should do. Cassil ends his Times piece with a very fair and poignant question

Out of the 52 million abortions in the US in the past 38 years, how many other Jobs’s have we extinguished?

Some hard-core abortion advocate might come back at this question with something like, “yeah, and how many Hitlers have we avoided? etc…you never know how each child will turn out in the end.” But that’s the point, isn’t it? Jobs’ story is a reminder that every child at least deserves a chance at greatness.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace.

Former Addict Chris Rene Wows X-Factor Judges!

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Ok, one more video this week! I just can’t hold back on this one either. This is just delightful. God is so good.

Note that the main reason this young man decided to finally get clean was his son. That is why I have said that the campaign to sterilize drug addicts is a bit misguided, at best. See: Why Not Sterilize Drug Addicts

X-Factor auditions are now over and the “real” competition begins tonight. I pray for Chris’ success, both on the show and, more importantly, with his sobriety!

Recommended:
‘School of Life’ is Path to Freedom and Peace for Addicts
TOB Tuesday: Healing the Person

Awesome Zeppelin Baby Blogging!

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I normally don’t like posting so many videos in a row, but my Zeppelin-loving heart just could not resist this one. I pray my future children (God-willing) are this awesome!!

<a href='http://www.bing.com/videos/watch/video/baby-loves-led-zeppelin/1jr57b34x?src=v5:embed::' target='_new' title='Baby Loves Led Zeppelin'>Video: Baby Loves Led Zeppelin</a>

And, because you’re never too old to get the Led out, check out “Old Man Rocks Out to Zeppelin“. Even more awesome! Happy Wednesday, everyone!!

TOB Tues: Pornography Shows Too Little of the Human Person

ChelseaAddiction, Sex, Sexuality, Theology of the Body, TOB TuesdayLeave a Comment

This is a wonderful interview with Matt Fradd, founder of The Porn Effect, in which he explains that the real problem with pornography is not that it shows too much, but that it shows much too little of the human person:

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Porn Kills Love

OMG! 7 BILLION People?!…Relax. It’s Not as Bad as You Think

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The latest from the Population Research Institute dispelling the “overpopulation” myth.

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Food: We’ve Got Plenty of It
Poverty is not Solved by Elimitating People

What Are You Doing to Help Build a Culture of Life?

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Respect Life

“Never tire of firmly speaking out in defense of life from its conception and do not be deterred from the commitment to defend the dignity of every human person with courageous determination. Christ is with you: be not afraid!” (JPII – Address to visiting bishops, 3 February 2001)

God created man in his image; in the divine image he created him; male and female he created them. (Genesis 1:26)

When we destroy human life, we destroy the image of God here on earth. October is Respect Life Month. Over at Catholic Vote, Kathryn Lopez suggests:

A question every Catholic ought to be asking this month and this day: What am I doing to build a culture of life? It can be dedicated prayer. It can be helping that mom down the street — or a father on the other side of town. It can be sacrifices small and great. It can be political. It can be creative. But are we doing something? Anything?

So? What are you doing to help build a culture of life? I like this suggestion from Mother Teresa:

“If you want to change the world, go home and love your family.”

That would certainly help as the family is the first vital cell of society! October is also the Month of the Rosary, one of our most powerful prayer weapons, so, please, definitely, make an end to abortion and a greater respect for human life from conception to natural death part of your rosary intentions this month. And since we’re in the midst of the fall 40 Days for Life campaign, you might also consider joining up with a 40 Days for Life group near you!

Suffering and The Little Way of Spiritual Childhood

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therese2.pngToday the Catholic Church celebrates the feast of St. Thérèse, a lovable little saint whose example of humility and abandonment is a reminder of the strength that can be found when we embrace the limits of our human nature and place all our hope and trust in God who is “more tender than a Mother.”

Afflicted with tuberculosis at a young age, a disease which not only caused her much physical pain, but also crushed her dreams of ever becoming active in the foreign missions, St. Thérèse did not allow such afflictions to also crush her spirit. Instead, she threw herself into the open arms of suffering and persevered under trial for the sake of God’s love and for the salvation of souls.

What Thérèse understood, perhaps more than any other soul in modern history, is the infinite love that God has for each one of us, regardless of his or her physical capabilities or situation in life, and that this love alone is what gives value and meaning to every human life. In fact, it is precisely to the weak and the small that Christ lets His secrets be known:

“I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike.” (Mt. 11:25)

The Little Flower’s “little way” was based on Christ’s call for us to become like little children. Little children are so small and weak that they depend on their parents for absolutely everything. To become child-like is to accept weakness and vulnerability in order to be strengthened by the power of Christ:

“My grace is sufficient for you for power is made perfect in weakness. I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me, for when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinth 12:9

Certainly God does not will suffering, which is a consequence of Original Sin. But in His infinite love and desire for souls He makes use of everything, including sickness, poverty, even our own failings so that we may grow closer to Him. Sadly, we live in a world that would rather destroy human life in an effort to overcome human weakness than discover the spiritual benefits and inner strength that can be gained through suffering.

Let us, then, show the world it’s folly by imitating the example of this little saint who took Christ’s words seriously (Mt. 16:24, Lk. 9:23) and, like St. Paul (2 Corinth 12:10), was content in her weakness and rejoiced in her suffering. For it is when we are weak that we are truly strong (2 Corinthians 12:9) and through our sufferings, united with the Cross, that we are purified and redeemed (1 Peter 1:6-7).

Therese’s own words:
The Little Bird -my favorite passage from Story of a Soul, perfectly explaining the little way of spiritual childhood.

Make Marriage a Priority

ChelseaLove, MarriageLeave a Comment

Brent Stubbs has a great post over at Virtuous Planet calling on men to make marriage a priority:
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Men have become immune to the relationship of marriage. What do I mean? I mean that men think that marriage magically happens. That one day Mrs. Right will come along their path and they will magically know that she is the magical one. When you look into her eyes, you will get that magical feeling and magically your bank account will have money for a ring, house and picket fence. Abracadabra, wify here I come!

All the while, many of these men put concerted and focused efforts so as to obtain numerous exploits: travel, education, friendships, professional accomplishments. They will lament that they have never “found” Mrs. Right, but they look for her like, well, a guy looks for anything in the refrigerator.

“Where’s the pickles?”

“Junior, all you need to do is move that jar there, and…”

The problem is that we don’t approach any relationship like the leftover cannoli in the fridge. Feel called to have kids? A certain, um, effort is required. Want a mentor? You may need to look for one. Desire a close friend? You probably shouldn’t turn your phone off after 6pm.

His post kind of reminds me of something I said here a few weeks ago:

“God will, for the most part, influence our coming into contact with a potentially suitable partner. But, then it is up to us to take action, to go out on a limb and open ourselves up to them in order to find out if they really are the one for us.”

That, of course, takes time away from other things we’ve got going on in our lives, but, if we are called to marriage, it’s something that we should make a priority. After all, the call to love resounding in our bodies invites us to go out of ourselves and to build a world together with another. “Man…cannot fully find himself except through a sincere gift of himself” Gaudium et Spes, 24

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Don’t Be Too Long in Making Those Good Decisions

Other helpful advice:
How God works in bringing people together
Time is Not on My Side (Are you ‘too busy’ to get married?)

No Abortions in Columbia Again!

ChelseaAbortion, Activism, Planned Parenthood, Pro LifeLeave a Comment

We’re only one day into the fall 40 Days for Life campaign and there’s already good news. Here in Missouri, the Planned Parenthood in Columbia has lost yet another abortionist. You may recall that I was just there a few weeks ago praying for 18 mothers who were going in for an abortion on my birthday.

This is not the first time they have been without an abortion provider. The PP in Columbia has gone through six different abortionists during the past two and a half years, including times during 40 Days for Life campaigns, and this facility has gone months at a time with absolutely no abortions. The physician they have on staff now has been called to active military service overseas (no word on what she actually does for the military) so abortions will be suspended in October until they can find a replacement. Let’s pray they never do!
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Whether it’s women and babies being saved individually through sidewalk counseling, clinic workers having a change of heart, abortionists quitting or even whole facilities being shut down, great things happen at abortion facilities where there is a peaceful, prayerful pro-life presence. It’s definitely not for everyone, but it’s also not as intimidating as some might think – depending on where you go. In Columbia, for example, we really only have one or two individuals who actually reach out to the women who are there for abortions. The rest of us really just stand there on the sidewalk and pray quietly to ourselves. There’s not a lot of interaction between us and the staff members or even other pro-choice protestors who sometimes show up. And the cops who have stopped by to check on things have always been quite amicable with us.

If you’ve got some time this fall and have never made it out to be a witness in front of an abortion facility, I would encourage you to give it a try. There are nearly 300 locations participating in 40 Days for Life this year. See if there’s one near you.

TOB Tues: Love Lifts Us Up Where We Belong

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Love lift us up where we belong
Far from the world we know
Up where the clear winds blow

You know, Joe Cocker and Jennifer Warnes really were on to something. Just beautiful:

[L]ove is a much deeper affair than many lovers realize, for it calls on them to receive each other as God’s gift and in so doing to embark upon the adventure of a concrete relationship with the Giver himself.

From Called to Love: Approaching John Paul II’s Theology of the Body