“The Ultimate and Absolute Evil”

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G. K. Chesterton’s thoughts on suicide, from his book Orthodoxy, chapter 5:

Under the lengthening shadow of Isben, an argument arose whether it was not a very nice thing to murder one’s self. Grave moderns told us that we must not even say “poor fellow,” of a man who had blown his brains out, since he was an enviable person, and had only blown them out because of their exceptional excellence. Mr. William Archer even suggested that in the golden age there would be penny-in-the-slot machines, by which a man could kill himself for a penny. In all this I found myself utterly hostile to many who called themselves liberal and humane. Not only is suicide a sin, it is the sin. It is the ultimate and absolute evil, the refusal to take an interest in existence; the refusal to take the oath of loyalty to life. The man who kills a man, kills a man. The man who kills himself, kills all men; as far as he is concerned he wipes out the world. His act is worse (symbolically considered) than any rape or dynamite outrage. For it destroys all buildings: it insults all women. The thief is satisfied with diamonds; but the suicide is not: that is his crime. He cannot be bribed, even by the blazing stones of the Celestial City. The thief compliments the things he steals, if not the owner of them. But the suicide insults everything on earth by not stealing it. He defiles every flower by refusing to live for its sake. There is not a tiny creature in the cosmos at whom his death is not a sneer. When a man hangs himself on a tree, the leaves might fall off in anger and the birds fly away in fury: for each has received a personal affront. Of course there may be pathetic emotional excuses for the act. There often are for rape, and there almost always are for dynamite. But if it comes to clear ideas and the intelligent meaning of things, then there is much more rational and philosophic truth in the burial at the crossroads and the stake driven through the body, than in Mr. Archer’s suicidal automatic machines. There is a meaning in burying the suicide apart. The man’s crime is different from other crimes – for it makes even crimes impossible.

The Diving Bell and the Butterfly

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jeandominique.pngHow appropriate that, after writing this post last week, my latest Netflix movie turned out to be The Diving Bell and the Butterfly about French journalist and former editor-in-chief of Elle magazine, Jean-Dominique Bauby. Talk about a man who “had it all”, only to seemingly “lose everything” when a massive stroke left him paralyzed from head-to-to with locked-in syndrome at the age of 42. And yet, reflecting on the luxurious life he lead before his stroke, he says,

Today my life feels like a string of near misses. Women I was unable to love, opportunities I failed to seize, moments of happiness I let drift away. A race whose result I knew before hand, but failed to pick the winner. Had I been blind and deaf, or did the harsh light of disaster make me find my true nature?

With only the ability to blink his left eye, Bauby dictated, letter by letter, his memoir to a transcriber who repeatedly recited a French language frequency-ordered alphabet. The movie is an adaptation of this memoir. Here is the trailer:

I have often heard people defend their desire to die rather than live in any kind of helpless, “vegetative” state by saying that they want to spare their family members to bear the burden of taking care of them and watching them suffer. So I loved it when, in the movie, Bauby expressed his desire for death to his speech therapist and she rebuked him saying:

There are people who love you, to whom you matter. I hardly know you, but you matter to me already. You’re alive. Don’t say you want to die. It’s disrespectful. Obscene.

Now, that’s how you respond to someone who thinks his/her life is worthless! Besides the triumph of the human spirit, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly beautifully shows humanity’s warmth and compassion as well. Bauby really was blessed with people who cared for him and valued his life. As a result of their love and generosity Bauby himself came around, choosing instead to focus on what he still had that made everyday life bearable – namely his imagination and his memory…and his children. The other scene in the movie I most enjoyed was when Bauby was out on the beach with his children on Father’s Day, about which he said:

Even a sketch, a shadow, a fragment of a dad is still a dad.

I was particularly struck by this statement because of the recent heartbreaking story of Abbie Dorn, the mother who became severely brain damaged after giving birth to triplets and the debate over whether or not she had any rights to see her children – or her children had a right to see her. Read it, if you dare, but I warn you: it will rip your heart out.

At one point, Bauby laments the fact that his children have to see him in such a humiliating, helpless condition, but then admits:

But I rejoice to see them live, move, laugh. That’s what I call a fine day.

And his children, I might add, are quite happy to have their dad around – whatever condition he’s in.

The quotes here are all from the movie, but I am now very interested in reading the actual memoir to see how closely the movie really depicted the thoughts and words of “Jean-Do” Bauby.

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Pixar Wisdom: The World Needs More “Jackalopes”!

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This is one of my absolute favorite Pixar short films:

Maybe I’m stretching it a bit, but it kind of reminds me of this passage from Romans (5:3-5):

we even boast of our afflictions, knowing that affliction produces endurance, and endurance, proven character, and proven character, hope, and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the holy Spirit that has been given to us.

When circumstances beyond our control alter our lives in a pretty devastating way (disability, disease, terminal illness, etc…) we tend to get so caught up in what is taken away from us that we almost completely lose sight of what is still good and possible. Like the lamb in the story above, we become naked, vulnerable, and begin to question our own personal dignity. What’s worse, these feelings are supported by a cultural movement to eliminate this kind of suffering by eliminating the suffering individual altogether. A movement quickly making its way, not just through progressive countries in Europe, but in some states here in America as well. Things are so bad that American assisted suicide pioneer and convicted murderer Jack Kevorkian can admit to a second murder on national television and hardly anyone blinks an eye because, well, it’s what the patient wanted, after all.

Here’s a thought: instead of affirming people in their misery, how about encouraging them, like Mr. Jackalope here, to re”bound” from feeling so hopeless and showing them what they still have to live for. Whether we find ourselves terminally ill, permanently disabled, or facing some other permanent or transitory hardship there is still some joy to be found amid the struggle. Not only that, but facing our fears and accepting and overcoming life’s hardships will shape our character and strengthen us as persons. And then there’s this:

He also serves who only stands and waits.
-John Milton, On His Blindness

Suffering is a great teacher. It reminds us that we are creatures and totally dependent on God. It teaches us humility and self denial so that the power of Christ may more easily dwell in us (2 Corinth 12:9-10). And that is always worth “boasting” and “bounding” about!

Now in this world of ups and downs…
So nice to know there are jackalopes around.

Yes – and we need more “jackalopes”! Be a Jackalope for others who suffer!

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Cute Baby Blogging + Thank You!

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First of all, many thanks to all of you for your prayers and well wishes for my mothers surgery/recovery. She got home from the hospital yesterday afternoon and is doing very well – praise God! Some of you may recall that at about this same time last year I was requesting prayers for my father who was in the hospital and had surgery. Thankfully they were able to space out their health problems so that they werent both sick/recovering at the same time. But, hopefully God will give us well more than a year before any if us has to go to the hospital or have surgery again. That goes for the rest of our family as well. One of my aunts has had a rough year with multiple, major surgeries. She could also use your prayers!

Cute baby bonus: My uncle made a video of my cousins sending my mom get well wishes (sort of):

I’m also happy to report that these two (who aren’t exactly babies anymore) will finally be Baptized this December!! God is good!

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P.S. Sorry for such light blogging this week. Ive got some stuff in the works – just have to buckle down and finalize! Just FYI – if things seem quiet here on this blog, do check out my Twitter account as I tend to do quite a bit of micro-blogging there during the week.

TOB Tuesday: Father’s Day & the TOB

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In honor of Father’s Day this Sunday, see Fr. Thomas Loya’s latest article for Catholic Exchanges TOB Channel. The intro:

It is appropriate that in our culture we observe “Father’s Day” during the warm weather time of year. This is a time of year when we see fathers doing a lot of outdoor grilling. We see Dad taking the kids camping, coaching baseball and working in the yard. In short, we see fathers and single men doing what the very theology and language of their bodies speaks about—acting upon the environment, engaging the external world.

Read the whole thing

And check out my previous TOB Tuesday post: A Crisis of Fatherhood

St. Thomas More: Model Catholic Citizen, Statesman

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On my retreat earlier this year our priest observed that nearly all of the world’s crises are really a “crisis of sanctity.” Of men and women either settling for mediocrity because they believe sanctity to be out of their reach or even rejecting sanctity with an “only the good die young” attitude about life. In light of that on today’s feast of St. Thomas More, I can’t help quoting extensively from Archbishop Chaput’s Render Unto Caesar (see Ch. 9) on why the example of this great statesman is just as relevant today as it was in sixteenth century England:

thomas moreMore was a brilliant lawyer, gifted author, tough political figure and loving father and husband — but most importantly, he was a person with the courage to say no, even when saying no meant humiliation and suffering. More was a man of principle guided by a properly formed conscience, who died rather than betray either. And this is the reason More’s life is relevant even today.

The modern interest in Thomas More has nothing to do with nostalgia for the sixteenth century. It stems from something else. More offers us a model we yearn for but too often lack in our own daily choices and public leaders…a live lived with courage and conviction, the same virtues that each of us is called to embrace as citizens and as Catholics.

More became the saint God wanted not only by dramatic words or gestures. He did it by the simple daily habit of examining his actions in the light of his faith. He fed his conscience with prayer. He submitted himself to the routine of seeking and choosing what his Catholic formation knew to be right. This same path to God is open to anyone who sincerely seeks it. Too often we look at the saints and focus on the end result of their lives. We delude ourselves into imagining that sainthood is exclusive; that holiness involves extraordinary gifts. It isn’t. It doesn’t. God created all of us to be saints. The only thing that sets a saint like More apart from the rest of us is that he persevered in his pursuit of God’s will without excuses or alibis. More’s life was never easy. He had many talents, but he worked tirelessly to develop them. The same gifts that make him a great lawyer and statesman also offered him the biggest temptations to serious sin: ambition, greed, the abuse of power and pride.

Through his private life, More teaches us the beauty of family, friendship, and love. In his public life, More teaches us the gravity of politics and the use and misuse of state authority.

More believed he had to follow his conscience, but not because he thought he was smarter or holier than anyone else. He would have quickly seen that for what it is: vanity. More obeyed his conscience because he knew he was obligated to obey God first. And knowing his personal sins and weaknesses, he also knew his duty to rightly form his conscience by anchoring it in truth outside his own will…His sacrifice was not an act of self-assertion. It was the opposite. It was an act of obedience. Only thus to More’s last words make sense as he neared the scaffold: “I die the King’s good servant, but God’s first.”

While candidates don’t go to the scaffold in American political life, they can still lose their careers, and they can most certainly lose their integrity. Given the power of the United States, the witness of Thomas More has value for every Catholic public official, today more than ever.

The witness of Thomas More remains strong for a reason. God may not call us to by martyrs in blood, but he certainly does call us to be martyrs of the daily kind – the kind who live lives with courage and Catholic conviction; the kind who demand personal integrity and good public policy from our political leaders. Each of us shapes the spirit of our nation. Each of us helps choose the direction our country will take in the future. Citizenship, as More well understood, is serious business. we need to recover the character to say yes to what our country needs, no to what it doesn’t, and the good sense to know the difference.

St. Thomas More, pray for us!

Prayers!

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Dear readers – please keep my mother in your prayers this morning. She is scheduled for surgery at 7:30am CST.

Thanks and God bless you!

Cute Baby Blogging: Indy-Style

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This Father’s Day my dad is in Iowa covering the Iowa Corn Indy 250 race for the Iowa Corn Growers. He’s actually been there since last Thursday when they had an E-85 pump promotion at the Kum & Go in Des Moines. That’s where he snapped this pic of driver Marco Andretti with a tiny fan:

Marco Andretti

Bonus pic: after several years of covering Indy for Ethanol dad was finally going to be able to ride around the track in an Indy car on Friday…until the ride was canceled due to rain. He looks pretty good in an Indy car, no?

Indy Car

My dad is a master blogger/tweeter (even making a business out of it with my mother) and the one who encouraged me to start blogging and tweeting in the first place. Happy Father’s Day, dad, and thank you for all the help and support you have given me in my own adventures in blogging!

Pelosi Pulls Disclose Act…For Now

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Yesterday I mentioned the “Disclose Act” that the U.S. House was supposed to vote on this week. This Bill would place new restrictions on the ability of incorporated groups, including pro-life groups like National Right to Life, to communicate with the public about the actions of federal lawmakers. If you don’t know much about it, NRLC has a full explanation of the Act here and Dave Andrusko has more on why it is so important to oppose “Disclose”.

I’m happy to report that the vote I warned about yesterday will no longer take place – this week at least. From Politico:

Following a rebellion by two important factions of rank-and-file House Democrats, Speaker Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.) has pulled a campaign-finance bill opposed by a broad coalition of special interest groups, including the U.S. Chamber of Commerce.

Pelosi and other Democratic leaders had scheduled a Friday vote on the DISCLOSE Act, a bill requiring special-interest groups to disclose their top donors if they choose to run TV ads or send out mass mailings in the final months of an election. The legislation is designed to roll back the controversial Supreme Court decision in the Citizens United case, which overturned restrictions on corporate campaign activities.

But after complaints from the conservative Blue Dogs and the Congressional Black Caucus, Pelosi was forced to pull the bill on Thursday night.

All is not clear yet. Some Democrat leadership aides say that a vote could be rescheduled for next week. I’ll be sure to keep you updated.

To Be Born

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This looks chilling:

Synopsis: To Be Born is about a young woman faced with an unplanned pregnancy who seeks to have an abortion. In the midst of the procedure, she finds herself in a regrettable situation when she hears her unborn daughter begin to describe the chilling details of what is happening.

This 12 minute DVD will soon be available for purchase on the To Be Born website.