“When I watched an abortion for the first time, my reaction surprised me”

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Newsweek writer Sarah Kliff on her emotional reaction to witnessing her first abortion (h/t Jill Stanek):

… But I’d never actually seen an abortion; I’d never watched the procedure that activists vehemently defend or deplore…. I wasn’t sure I would. I confess I was hesitant to step into Carhart’s operating room….

A 1st-trimester abortion, from my vantage point behind the glass window, looked like an extended, more invasive version of a standard ob-gyn exam. A woman with her heels in stirrups, clothes traded in for a hospital gown, a speculum holding the cervix open. Carhart used a suction tube to empty the contents of the uterus; it took no longer than 3 minutes. The suction machine made a slight rumbling sound, a pinkish fluid flowed through the tube, and, faster than I’d expected, it was over…. I’d anticipated some kind of difficulty watching an abortion; it wasn’t there.

At least not physically. But there was a discomfort I hadn’t expected, my emotional reaction to watching abortions….

When I returned from Omaha, friends and colleagues wanted to know if I had “done it.” When I said I had, their reactions surprised me. Friends who supported legal abortion bristled slightly when I told them where I’d been and what I’d watched. Acquaintances at a party looked a bit regretful to have asked about my most recent assignment. The majority of Americans support Roe v. Wade’s protection of abortion, about 68% as of May. But my experience (among an admittedly small, largely pro-choice sample set) found a general discomfort when confronted with abortion as a physical reality, not a political idea. Americans may support abortion rights, but even 40 years after Roe, we don’t talk about it like other medical procedures.

And maybe that’s appropriate. Abortion may be a simple procedure medically, but it is not cancer surgery. It’s an elective procedure that no one – neither its defenders nor its detractors – expects to elect for themselves. I had (and still have) difficulty understanding my own reaction, both relieved to have watched a minimally invasive surgery and distressed by the emotionality of the process. Abortion involves weighty choices that, depending on how you view it, involve a life, or the potential for life….

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This reminds me of an article by Mark Shea that I came across earlier today on our Neat, Clean Culture of Death in which he explains that from the abortion clinic to Terri Schiavo’s hospice to the spotless execution room “we prefer our violence privatized and sanitized.” Indeed, we hide the reality of abortion behind the pristine facade of a ‘medical procedure’ (presumably) performed by a ‘doctor’ or some kind of licensed medical professional in the sophisticated setting of a ‘clinic’ or a hospital. So why the discomfort? No doubt this is what “surprised” Ms. Kliff. But, no matter how hard we try to disguise it or normalize it, we cannot escape the fact that abortion remains the deliberate taking of innocent human life and that should make us all uncomfortable.

Prayers for Dr. Lankford and Family

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nullI just got this email from a good friend of mine about his dad (pictured here) – a wonderful (retired) pro-life doctor from Mexico, MO:

Hi!

My dad had a massive stroke on Wednesday….and will not recover.

We have begun the wait for his passing. Please keep my family, especially my mother in your prayers.

I met Dr. Lankford a few years ago when we both spoke at a life issues forum in Warsaw, MO: http://reflectionsofaparalytic.com/?p=539 The above picture is from his presentation while he was illustrating what happens during a partial birth abortion. He’s a faithful, dedicated Catholic and has been active in the pro-life movement – educating people about the evil of abortion – for most of his life.

Please pray for Dr. Lankford and his family. May they be consoled and may he be granted a peaceful, happy death with the inheritance of eternal life.

Why We Can’t Trust the Government With Health Care

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Rebecca Taylor makes an excellent point:

Before we can trust the government with our health care, we need to trust the government to protect life from beginning to end. Right now we cannot do that.

In order for health care to be fair and effective it must be dedicated to preserving all life, from conception to natural death. Of course the health care system in our country needs some serious help. But as long as our government denies the rights of its weakest citizens, essentially supporting a culture of death, whatever “reform” they come up with will not long promote the preservation of life or serve the greater good.

Sen. McCaskill Opposes Fed. Funding of Abortion?

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It seems my U.S. Senator, Claire McCaskill has been well covered in the news lately for the noise that has been made at some of her town hall meetings in the state this month. Most of the coverage is of how she has handled the criticism and denied the liberal talking points about these being manufactured protests. But this week she made headlines – at least among pro-lifers – for promising, at a meeting in Hillsboro, MO on Tuesday, that she would not vote for a bill that changes the federal law (which she says prohibits it) in terms of funding abortion.” Which you can see in this video (from 4:30-6:25).

If this claim is true, it comes in stark contrast to the position she’s held thus far. LifeNews reports, Sen. McCaskill voted just seven months ago against an amendment to restore the Mexico City Policy which would prohibit taxpayer funding of groups that promote and perform abortions overseas. And she voted another three times in 2007 and 2008 against limits on funding abortions or groups that do them. Now, I suppose one could argue that none of those things had anything to do with actively funding or not funding the abortions themselves, but still, these votes, coupled with her emphatic support for abortion rights and cozy relationship with pro-abortion groups like NARAL and Emily’s List, make it kind of…ok, really, REALLY hard to believe that she would reject an entire heath care reform bill if she thought that it would require the federal government to fund abortion services.

And what about McCaskill’s repeated insistence that the Senate bill will not mandate abortion coverage? She and others get away with this claim, of course, by pointing out that abortion is not specifically mentioned in the health care proposal. But, as Missouri Right to Life president, Pam Fichter explains, that doesn’t mean that abortion will not be covered:

While, as she said, the word “abortion” doesn’t appear in the Kennedy bill, the term “essential benefit” in the Kennedy bill will be interpreted by the courts to mandate abortion coverage as illustrated by past administrative and legal interpretation. For example, the federal Medicaid statute was interpreted to require abortion coverage even though the law did not mention abortion. [Planned Parenthood Affiliates of Michigan v. Engler, 73 F.3d 634, 636 (6th Cir. 1996)]. This funding was subsequently prohibited by the Hyde Amendment. Once abortion is mandated as an “essential benefit,” the result will be federally mandated coverage of abortion on demand in virtually all of America’s health plans. The Kennedy bill also requires participating plans to ensure a “wide choice of providers,” which will require establishment of additional abortion-providing sites. In addition, Missouri laws that impede “access” to the “essential benefit” of abortion, such as waiting periods and parental consent, may be nullified to comply with the federal law. All efforts to explicitly exclude abortion or to prevent health care providers from being penalized for refusing to participate in providing abortions were defeated along party lines in the Senate committee.

In subsequent radio interviews, when asked about abortion coverage in the Senate bill, Sen.McCaskill erroneously stated that the Hyde Amendment would prevent any federal money from being used for abortion. According to an August 5 report by the Associated Press, while the Hyde amendment applies restrictions to Medicaid, the federal employee health plan and military programs, the Hyde amendment would not apply to the new streams of federal funding in the proposed health care plans. The AP article states that Senate staff aides “confirmed that the public plan – and private insurance offered in the exchange – would be allowed to cover abortion, without funding restrictions. “

Actually, there has been an amendment passed in committee that OKs coverage for abortion – under the auspices of “woman’s health.”

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The only way to ensure that abortions will not be covered under the federal health care reform is if specific language is written into the bill that excludes taxpayer funds from paying for abortions. Find out more at StopTheAbortionMandadte.com

TOB Tuesday: Healthcare and the Theology of the Body

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Who is sick of talking/hearing about health care these days?? I know I sure am! Well, here’s a little different look at it for you, at least. In light of the ongoing debate on the subject in Washington and at town hall meetings throughout the country, Fr. Thomas Loya writes about healthcare and the Theology of the Body

Our bodies speak a language. They tell us how they work and what they need. All we have to do is listen to that language and do two things: give our bodies what they need and secondly don’t give our bodies what they do not need. When we do this we are guaranteed to be healthier which means we will rely less on a medical system or man-made healthcare programs. This in turn will dramatically drive costs downward and make healthcare more affordable for everyone, especially the poor. However this approach to healthcare requires self-discipline and virtuous and honest living. It requires changing some of our habits and re-educating ourselves about food, our bodies and our personhood. But this requires various forms of self-discipline and self-denial and politicians do not want to tell you that. Real healthcare is wholistic. It involves the whole person, mind, body, soul, spirit, emotions, habits, etc. This in turn calls us to look even at our whole culture. What aspects of American culture promote or work against wholistic health?

Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and as such it is important that we take proper care of them. This means, quite obviously, eating right and staying fit through regular exercise. But that’s not all that is involved in maintaining a “healthy lifestyle.” As Fr. Loya points out, we must look at our “whole” selves – body, mind and spirit. In order to be truly “healthy” we must take into account, not only our physical well-being, but also our spiritual welfare and emotional stability. This means, besides a proper diet and exercise, maintaining an active prayer life, frequent reception of the sacraments, avoiding stress and immoral behavior and even keeping our minds sharp with reading, mind games or continuing education.

Says Fr. Loya:

Whether the government ever looks at healthcare through the lens of TOB or not, you can.

TOB Tuesdays

Cute Baby Blogging: Happy Monday!

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I thought this would be a nice way to start off the work week – it had me laughing pretty hard anyway. Enjoy:

I Will Be a Voice…Will You?

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As I mentioned yesterday, the longer the right to Life is excluded from American politics, the closer we come to losing our other rights and liberties. So far over 50 MILLION unborn children have been legally killed in our country – how much more blood needs to be shed before we finally say, ENOUGH?!

In this Susan B. Anthony List award-winning video, 12 year old self-proclaimed “abortion Holocaust survivor” Anthony Matzke challenges YOU to “be a voice” for the voiceless (h/t Inflated Tires):

Recent polling shows that, for the first time in 30 years, a majority of Americans consider themselves “pro-life.” Imagine the impact if all of these people actually acted on these so-called pro-life beliefs.

BTW, I am LOVING these little pro-lifers! The SBA video contest that the above video won was inspired by 12 year old Lia Mills who I told you about this February. Then there was this video from pro-life super-couple Jack and Charmaine Yoest‘s daughter Helena after she was harassed at school for wearing a pro-life t-shirt. See more videos from pro-life youth.

Pray that these young people remain inspired and engaged!

Losing Our Liberty

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nullWe hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
–The Declaration of Independence

Some of you might have heard about the nurse in New York who says she was forced to assist with an abortion. This NY Post article quotes Catherina Cenzon-DeCarlo as saying:

“I emigrated to this country in the belief that here religious freedom is sacred. Doctors and nurses shouldn’t be forced to abandon their beliefs and participate in abortion in order to keep their jobs.”

This, of course, is an outrage and a violation against this woman’s first amendment rights, something many people see as a sign of things to come with the threat of socialized medicine and other invasive Government programs. But I wonder if this should really come as much of a surprise to us. After all, after 36 years of legalized abortion on demand, have we not all but completely done away with that first and most basic of all human rights, the transcendent right to life of every human being? Without the right to Life respected and protected in our country, how much longer can we expect our Liberty to last?

See: Do We Have a Rendezvous With Destiny?

TOB Tuesday: Pray for Priests!

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Fr. Angelo BartulicaSince today is the feast of St. John Vianney, patron saint of parish priests, let’s again take this time to thank God and pray for those men who have answered the call to freely renounce the gift of self to another person that they might give themselves totally to Christ “for the kingdom of heaven.” I should have noticed today’s feast day when I did my TOB Tuesday post last week! Oh well, our priests, who are just as vulnerable to temptation and human weakness as the rest of us, need all the prayers they can get!

Dear Saint John Vianney,
your childhood dream was to be a Priest, to win souls for God. You endured years of toil and humiliation to attain the Priesthood. You became a priest truly after God’s own heart, outstanding in humulity and poverty; prayer and mortification. Totally devoted to the service of God’s people. The Church has exalted you as model and patron saint St. John Vianneyof all Parish priests, trusting that your example and prayers will help them to live up to the high dignity of their vocation to be faithful servants of God’s people, to be perfect imitators of Christ the Saviour Who came not to be served but to serve, to give His Life in ransom for many.

Pray that God may give to His Church today many more priests after His own Heart. Pray for all the priests under your patronage, that they may be worthy representatives of Christ the Good Shepherd. May they wholeheartedly devote themselves to prayer and penance; be examples of humility and poverty; shining modelss of holiness; tireless and powerful preachers of the Word of God; zealous dispensers of God’s Grace in the Sacraments. May their loving devotion to Jesus in the Eucharist and to Mary His Mother be the Twin Fountains of fruitfulness for their ministry.

Amen.

While Christ reveals to man and woman another vocation, above the vocation to marriage, namely, renouncing marriage in view of the kingdom of heaven, he highlights the same truth about the human person with this vocation. If a man or a woman is capable of making a gift of self for the kingdom of heaven, this shows in turn (and perhaps even more) that the freedom of the gift exists in the human body. This means that the body possesses a full “spousal” meaning. (JP II, 1/16/80 TOB 15:5)

See my previous post: “How do They Know? They’re Celibates!” on celibacy for the kingdom and the fulfillment of our sexuality. The celibate vocation is so important in our society, especially today, because, while the marriage is a sort of rocket booster meant to shoot us into heaven, celibates proclaim to the world that this heaven is real.

TOB Tuesdays

Alphonse: A Monster For Our Time

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AlphonseThe word monster conjures up many images. One generally thinks of terrorizing and mythical creatures like Cyclops, Godzilla or Nessy or maybe even a giant, furry, blue Disney character. But a fetus??

According to the American Heritage Medical Dictionary (and several others), “monster” refers to a fetus or an infant that is grotesquely abnormal and usually not viable. At first the association seems a bit odd and even rather cruel, but we can see how the reference is supported when we consider the rate at which children are killed in-utero after a positive test for some kind of fetal abnormality. Of course most would say that such a thing is done in the interest of avoiding the financial and emotional stress of caring for a sick child or saving the child from a life of suffering. But, if we’re being honest here, it’s also because there still exists in our world a certain level of physical revulsion, or discomfort at least, at the thought of seeing or being close to the physically handicapped.

Enter Alphonse, the hero of a new comic created to foster discussion about abortion. From the website:

Alphonse is the story of eight lives that intersect because of an attempted abortion. Why “attempted?” Because while there are no angels or demons on either side, there is definitely a monster in the middle: Alphonse. Rendered “grotesquely abnormal” by his unwitting mother’s use of controlled substances, he is both sentient and freakishly coordinated. He is also deeply wounded, twisted by fear and rage after the attempt on his life, and bent on revenge.

But violence begets violence. Alphonse is pursued even as he is pursuing, and haunted by the claim that there may be another way…

Alphonse is the brainchild (literally) of Matthew Lickona, a staff writer for the San Diego Reader, who was, according to this Catholic News Agency interview, inspired by Gary Cangemi’s “Umbert the Unborn” comic strip featuring a cute, lovable little fetus who shares pro-life wit and wisdom from inside the womb. But Alphonse is NO Umbert.

Lickona describes his character as a “living nightmare” and likens him to the Flannery O’Connor character The Misfit from her short story ‘A good Man is Hard to Find‘:

a twisted, violent soul who nonetheless bears a kind of prophetic witness, both in spite of the violence and, in a way, through it.”

I finally got my copy of the first issue of Alphonse this weekend and read it yesterday. It’s…different. Very dark, serious, a little disturbing at times, but then, so is abortion, is it not – and more so! I’ll say this much, it certainly is a creative new approach to the abortion debate, reaching out to a new and different audience.

Order issue one and make a donation to help fund the production of issue two.

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