Abortion is NOT Good or Loving

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In a new ad campaign Northland Family Planning Centers of Michigan touts the “essential goodness of our work” and encourages women to feel good about choosing to end the life of their unborn child (h/t Creative Minority Report). This is diabolical:

Despite abortion being a legal “procedure” for over 35 years and and relatively normalized in our society (based on current abortion rates, one in three American women will have had an abortion by age 45), many women do, indeed, feel bad about their decision to abort, right away or years later. And there is a perfectly good reason for this. Maternal instincts are natural, built in, chief among these being the instinct to protect one’s own child, not kill it. Now, this certainly does not mean that women who choose abortion are “bad people.” However, plenty of otherwise “good people” do make lots of bad choices – and abortion is one of them. From the video: “hard choices do not make us bad people” – no, but hard cases do not justify taking the life of an innocent human being. Whatever the reason, abortion is neither good nor loving, as those at the Northland Family Planning Center suggest. In fact, it is a rejection of love, it kills it and that necessarily has a profound affect both on the woman who chooses abortion and society as a whole. Said Mother Teresa

love means to be willing to give until it hurts…By abortion, the mother does not learn to love, but kills even her own child to solve her problems…Any country that accepts abortion is not teaching its people to love, but to use any violence to get what they want. This is why the greatest destroyer of love and peace is abortion.

For post-abortion healing visit:
Project Rachel
or any of these other support and recovery groups – including some for men.

Pregnant & need help? Call 800-395-HELP for free, confidential counseling services and discover a real good and loving decision for you and your unborn child.

What a Difference a Week Makes!

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Thank God for this misunderstanding! 1 year old Jaslyn Barnett is alive today because before she was born doctors thought she was at 23 weeks. Had the doctors known then that she was only at 22 weeks, according to Jaslyn’s mother, they would have done little to help her:

“So because the ultrasound came back that I was actually a week further along than I was, that’s what helped, that’s what jump-started the whole thing, so now that she was out, and they were doing everything they could to help her survive.”

Jaslyn is not the first baby to survive being born prior to 23 weeks. In 2007, Amillia Taylor became the tiniest baby born after only 21 weeks and six days in her mother’s womb

TOB Tuesday: Suffering as a Gift from God

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This is an excellent article from Steve Pokorny at Catholic Exchange. A bit of an intro:

Throughout human history, since Adam and Eve, there has been the temptation to want to take the powers of life into our own hands. There is the insidious idea that is floated through our fallible minds that if we manipulate things to our liking, then things will just go better. Or so we think.

Take the issue of euthanasia that is ramping up its exposure. From a recent Discovery Institute article entitled “Suicide Radicalism Surges in America,” we read that “Doctor” Philip Nischke of Australia “has brought his suicide seminar to California and Washington State, where he taught all comers how they can make themselves dead.” His logic (albeit misguided) leads him to “if we each own our bodies, he says, and if self-termination is an acceptable answer to human suffering, then assisted suicide shouldn’t be restricted to limited “subgroups” such as the terminally ill.”

“Dr. Phil” would be correct if our bodies were merely an instrument, something that is separate from ourselves. Yet this is the same trouble that dear fellow Descartes got himself into.

I don’t want to give too much away here – read the whole thing!

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Time is a Treasure

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This sort of goes with my last post:

“Time is a treasure that melts away. It escapes from us, slipping through our fingers like water through the mountain rocks. Tomorrow will soon be another yesterday. Our lives are so very short. Yesterday has gone and today is passing by. But what a great deal can be done for the love of God in this short space of time!”

~St. Josemaria, Friends of God: Time is a Treasure

For You Know Neither the Day Nor the Hour

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Yesterday I finally made a visit to the cemetery where a friend of mine from high school is buried. Something I do every November, the month of All Souls:

Cemetary

Malorie died in a car accident almost a year before my own accident in 1999. She was 15 years old.

Usually on this website I am celebrating or defending life, but it is also important to have a healthy awareness of death. Not only does it give us some perspective on the shortness of life and so make us to cherish even more our own life and the lives of our loved ones, but it also helps us to remember what we are really living for:

For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the one that is to come. (Heb. 13:14)

Having personally experienced a few major traumas in the last ten years, I am more aware of this than I ever thought I would be – at least not for a few more decades. But thank God, for this awareness has kindled in me a great desire to

Be vigilant at all times
and pray that [I] have the strength
to escape the tribulations that are imminent
and to stand before the Son of Man. (Lk. 21:36)

So that when my day finally does come for real I will not be taken by surprise, for

at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come (Mt. 24:44)

Oh, St. Joseph,
I never weary contemplating you and Jesus asleep in your arms;
I dare not approach while He reposes near your heart.
Press Him in my name and kiss His fine Head for me and
Ask Him to return the Kiss when I draw my dying breath.
St. Joseph, Patron of departed souls – pray for me.
Amen.

Related post: Thank God for Eternal Life!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Brothers and sisters:
Grace to you and peace from God our Father
and the Lord Jesus Christ.

I give thanks to my God always on your account
for the grace of God bestowed on you in Christ Jesus,
that in him you were enriched in every way,
with all discourse and all knowledge,
as the testimony to Christ was confirmed among you,
so that you are not lacking in any spiritual gift
as you wait for the revelation of our Lord Jesus Christ.
He will keep you firm to the end,
irreproachable on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.
God is faithful,
and by him you were called to fellowship with his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. (1 Cor 1:3-9)

I hope you all stay safe and have a wonderful day and remember to thank our good and gracious God for his beautiful gift of life!

New life to be thankful for this year – Selena Christine:

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NRL, AUL Point Out Rationing/Assisted Suicide HCR Concerns

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A National Right to Life analysis of the Senate health care reform bill found that:

Senior citizens’ ability to use their own money, if they choose, to avoid involuntary denial of medical treatment under Medicare could be severely limited.

State commissioners of the new health insurance exchanges created by the bill would be given power to deny people who are trying to obtain policies in the exchange the option of choosing health plans less likely to deny treatment, by limiting what they would be allowed to pay for such policies.

In response to public reaction over the summer denouncing efforts to encourage patients to agree to reject treatment as a way of saving costs, the Senate avoided including the “advance care planning” provisions still in the House bill. Instead, it has sought to achieve a similar result under a different name, Under the title “Shared Decisionmaking,” the bill funds and promotes “patient decision aids” to “help” patients make treatment decisions.

A Medicare Advisory Board is established to force Medicare payments below the rate of medical inflation.

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Life News has an article from American’s United for Life attorney Anna Franzonello who points out that: Despite Stupak, Rationing and Assisted Suicide Remain in House Health Care Bill. Pointing out the Comparative Effectiveness Research (CER) provisions, Franzonello says that an acceptable amendment managed to be added to the House health care bill to prevent CER from being used to deny or ration care. No word on whether that language is part of the Senate bill as well. I trust that AUL will be keeping an eye on that and I will make sure to share any information as soon as I see it. On AS:

H.R. 3962 does not contain any assurance that assisted suicide and euthanasia will not be funded. The bill affords no conscience protection for health care providers regarding end-of-life concerns. Moreover, it contains a provision that allows for the promotion of assisted suicide.

H.R. 3962 Sec. 240 requires every health insurance company participating in the Exchange to make advanced directives available. A serious concern with the mandate of advance directives is that they may be used for the promotion or encouragement of assisted suicide. As the bill stands now, these mandated directives can be used to promote what is commonly understood as “assisted suicide” in Oregon and Washington.

At first glance it might seem that H.R. 3962 guards against this. Sec. 240 (a)(3) & (b)(3) prohibit “promot[ing] suicide, assisted suicide, euthanasia, or mercy killing.” And (d) adds that “suicide, assisted suicide, euthanasia, or mercy killing” shall not be listed as options on advance directives.

However, because the bill does not define “assisted suicide,” in Oregon and Washington that language would be ineffective. Both states have legalized what is commonly understood to be “assisted suicide.” But both states have explicitly defined in their “Death with Dignity” laws that what they allow is not assisted suicide.

Therefore, in Washington and Oregon – and any state that may similarly redefine assisted suicide – advanced directives can be used to promote assisted suicide.

An amendment to the original House health care bill, H.R. 3200, would have prevented this loophole. It clarified that these directives could not be used to promote “active hastening of death.” However, that clarifying language was not included in H.R. 3962.

This is similar to what Wesley Smith wrote about not too long ago.

Thanks to these folks for keeping an eye on the other pro-life concerns with health care reform. Let’s hope other pro-lifers are paying attention (ahem, U.S. Bishops and pro-life Democrats). The Senate is set to begin amendment debate on the health care bill after Thanksgiving.

TOB Tuesday: Sex, Life and Death

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In a column for Catholic Exchange not too long ago, Dr. Mark Dendrickson commented on the increasing incidence of men killing their pregnant lovers and how the “culture of death” has progressed this far. The driving force:

Another powerful anti-life undertow was generated by the “sexual revolution.” For many, the Judeo-Christian concept of sex for procreation was eclipsed by the philosophy of sex as recreation. Procreation or recreation: Is sex about creating life or having fun? Is it about giving life and love, or is it about taking pleasure—a self-indulgence so devoid of love that in extreme cases it culminates in murder. Is it life-affirming or life-destroying?

To the extent that sex as fun has eclipsed sex for life, we have trivialized sex and devalued life. The result: Soaring divorce rates, the emotional trauma of broken families, and even men murdering their lovers and unborn children. Clearly, being “liberated” from traditional sexual mores isn’t as progressive—individually or socially—as the proponents of sexual “liberation” promised.

Creating a culture of life is not just about reducing abortion numbers – though that is one of our goals – but about encouraging humanity to answer the call to love as God loves, especially in our sexuality. The opposite of love is not hate, but use. And this is what is plaguing our society today, that men and women see each other as objects of use for their own physical gratification. We have fallen so far away from the full truth of man’s existence – about who men and women really are as persons, what our bodies represent and how we are to compliment one another.

Ironically, what many now celebrate as “freedom” has really left them slaves to their own sexual desires while also leading them to perceive themselves as masters of the life and death of others. This is what happens when God’s plan for life and love is defiled. After all, it’s kind of hard to have reverence for all human life while violating the very act through which life is created. Pope Paul VI predicted these things (and much more!) when he wrote Humanae Vitae. And no doubt this was weighing heavily on the mind of JP II when he delivered the Wednesday audiences that made up his “Theology of the Body” during the first six years of his pontificate.

It is an illusion to think that we can build a true culture of human life if we do not help the young to accept and experience sexuality and love and the whole of life according to their true meaning and in their close interconnection (JP II, Evangelium Vitae n. 97)

Abortion and Moonlight Sonata

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50 MILLION is a lot of people. I wonder how many “Beethoven’s” abortion has killed in the last 36+ years…

TN Hospital Will Continue Care for Sick Baby

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This is Gabriel Palmer:

Praise God that an “ethics panel” decided today to formally agree not to withdraw care from Baby Gabriel who was born prematurely with a genetic abnormality, club foot, and narrow airway. Oh and praise God for the Alliance Defense Fund, too!

It’s a sad day when it’s major news that a hospital has decided to continue treating a sick patient. Of course it’s sad that the hospital would even consider withholding treatment in the fist place, despite the mother’s objections!