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As if we needed another reason to not watch the CBS Evening News. In this little segment Katie Couric laments the lack of access to contraception for low income women (hello Margaret Sanger!) and promotes Planned Parenthood’s push for the Gov’t to define birth control as “preventative medicine”, as if pregnancy was a disease:

See my latest posts on this subject here and here.

Other pill related commentary worth checking out:
–Jenny Senour Uebbing comments on the lack of information made public about the serious risks of contraceptive use in younger women.
–Dr. Janet Smith rocks my world with her response to a grossly inaccurate contraception article by the Agence France Press (whatever that is).

Contraception: Morally Wrong in Every Circumstance

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This post was inspired by a few conversations I’ve had with some people about contraception since my post on Tuesday:

Until just 80 years ago every major Christian religion condemned the practice of intentionally sterilizing the marital act as gravely immoral. Then, in 1930, the Anglican Council of Bishops approved of married couples using “other methods” of avoiding pregnancy, in very limited circumstances and provided it’s “decided on Christian principles.” I know several people who, on the one hand will agree that it is wrong to use contraception to support a perpetually promiscuous sexual lifestyle, but on the other hand don’t understand why it should be a problem if contraception is used, as those first Christians to approve of contraception agreed that it could be, “responsibly” by a married couple who does not want to have a lot of children. Thank God for Pope Paul VI:

“[I]t is never lawful, even for the gravest reasons, to do evil that good may come of it (cf. Romans, 3:8)—in other words, to intend directly something which of its very nature contradicts the moral order, and which must therefore be judged unworthy of man, even though the intention is to protect or promote the welfare of an individual, of a family or of society in general. Consequently, it is a serious error to think that a whole married life of otherwise normal relations can justify sexual intercourse which is deliberately contraceptive and so intrinsically wrong.”–Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae, 14

Intentionally sterilizing the marital act is always morally wrong, no matter who is doing it and for what reasons. It is, as I said the other day, an affront to the nature of the marital act as God created it and a gross distortion of the eternal reality that sex and marriage is meant to symbolize (Eph 5:21-32). The use of contraception not only destroys (or attempts to destroy) the procreative aspect of the marital act, but by one or the other spouse withholding his or her fertility, it destroys unity as well.

The whole issue of “birth control” really comes down a question of, as it’s name suggests, control – Who is my God? Who is in charge of my life? Radical personal autonomy is the crusade of our modern contraception loving society; “By body, my choice” its battle cry. And yet, who among us can really boast of having any choice whatsoever in the circumstances that gave him a body and brought him to life in the first place?

“Do you not know that your body is a temple of the holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price.” (1 Corinth. 6:19-20)

Whether we live or die we are the Lord’s (Rom. 14:8)! It is in His will that we find true peace and happiness.

To experience the gift of married love while respecting the laws of conception is to acknowledge that one is not the master of the sources of life but rather the minister of the design established by the Creator. Just as man does not have unlimited dominion over his body in general, so also, and with more particular reason, he has no such dominion over his specifically sexual faculties, for these are concerned by their very nature with the generation of life, of which God is the source (Humanae Vitae, 13).

Let’s be clear here, no one is suggesting, though we have been accused of it, that women become “breeding machines” or that couples should have as many children as humanly possible. There can be serious reasons for a couple to avoid pregnancy, but artificial contraception is not a necessity for doing so. A woman does not ovulate every day of the month and modern methods of natural family planning can determine with almost absolute certainty when a woman is ovulating so that, if a couple has a serious reason for avoiding pregnancy, they can avoid intercourse during that period and then take advantage of the natural cycles of infertility to engage in marital intercourse. Surely it is not impossible for a couple to abstain from sex for a few days out of the entire month. Unlike birth control this method regulating birth upholds the beauty and sanctity of the female body and the marital act and allows couples to cooperate with God – rather than taking their fertility and the matters of life into their own hands.

“When, therefore, through contraception, married couples remove from the exercise of their conjugal sexuality its potential procreative capacity, they claim a power which belongs solely to God; the power to decide in the final analysis the coming into existence of a human person. They assume the qualification not of being cooperators in God’s creative power, but the ultimate depositories of the source of human life. In this perspective, contraception is to be judged so profoundly unlawful as never to be, for any reason, justified. To say or think the contrary is equal to maintaining that in human life situations may arise in which it is lawful not to recognize God as God.” (JPII, September 17, 1983).

Of course NFP can be abused and used as a form of contraception. That is why it is important that it be used with a “procreative attitude.”

The right and lawful ordering of birth demands, first of all, that spouses fully recognize and value the true blessings of family life and that they acquire complete mastery over themselves and their emotions (HV, 21)

Intellectually, this is not a hard teaching to understand. The reasons for the Church’s position on contraception are based on nature and stamped right into our very bodies. The problem lies with our constant battle with concupiscence and the disordering of our desires caused by original sin. But, sexual purity is possible – it’s difficult, but it is within our reach. Though our nature is wounded and subject to temptation, Christ came into the world to free us from the slavery of sin (Romans 6:1-14) and call us to perfection (Mt. 5:48). Provided we love God enough to do His will, He will give us the strength we need to follow Him.

Ad Jesum per Mariam!

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“In the end My Immaculate Heart will triumph” -Our Lady of Fatima

TOB Tuesday: Sex Doesn’t Have “Consequences”

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This year marks the 50th anniversary of the birth control pill.

Ahhh, Contraception. How you have enriched our society! Let me count the ways: infidelity, divorce, pornography, prostitution, STDs, out of wed lock/teen pregnancy and, of course, abortion. Sure, these things existed before your invention, but they’ve become veritable epidemics since your use has become so accepted and widespread over the last 50 years.

In this presentation Fr. Thomas Euteneuer discusses one of the worst fruits of the “contraception revolution”, explaining the connection between birth control and abortion and the 4 stages of development through which birth control morphs into abortion. “Abortion is not the revolution,” Fr. E says, “contraception is the revolution.” Sex divorced from procreation is the revolution.

In the final analysis, the abortion debate is not so much about when life begins, but the meaning of sex and the human body. As I’ve said on here several times before, people did not just wake up one day and decide they have a right to kill their unborn children – but they did progressively decide it was their right to have meaningless sex without limit or consequence. This is what has lead to the de-humanization of the unborn child. It’s not because so many people are really that ignorant about basic human biology, but that now pregnancy is seen as an undesirable consequence of and a hindrance to a misguided notion of sexual “freedom.” This attitude has turned the unborn child into a parasite, a tumor, an enemy who must be destroyed. This is why:

It is an illusion to think that we can build a true culture of human life if we do not…accept and experience sexuality and love and the whole of life according to their true meaning and in their close interconnection (JP II, Evangelium Vitae n. 97)

Here’s the thing: Sex does not (or at least it shouldn’t) have “consequences”; it has a purpose. If you have sex and you or your partner gets pregnant, something did not go wrong. Something went beautifully and fundamentally right! Sexual intercourse is meant to be both unitive and procreative – a renewal of the marriage covenant. Any sexual act outside of this context is an affront to our nature as human beings, not to mention a gross distortion of the eternal reality it is meant to symbolize (Eph 5:21-32).

Read: Humanae Vitae

TOB Tuesdays

“Thank You For Not Having An Abortion”

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AdoptionAdoption is definitely not an easy or painless decision for any woman to make – but compared to abortion, it’s a life-saver! The St. Louis Post has a touching story about a University of Missouri student who found and contacted his birth mother 20 years after she gave him up for adoption:

“Who are you?” she asked.

“I think you might be my birth mother,” he said.

DiMino was stunned. She remembers going numb. She didn’t tell many people about the baby she had given up.

“Thank you for not having an abortion,” Danny said.

Read the whole thing!

Happy Mother’s Day!

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    The very soul of a woman is meant to be maternal. –Alice von Hildebrand

God bless all of you mothers out there – biological, adoptive, spiritual – and thank you for choosing life, love and maternity in a world which tends to shun all three.

Mary, our Mother, Mother of God and the Queen of all mothers, we love you! Pray for us!

Santorum: Daughter w/ Trisomy 18 “Worth Every Tear”

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ricksantorum.jpgFormer PA Sen. Rick Santorum has a moving piece int he Philadelphia Enquirer honoring the second birthday of his daughter Bella:

‘Incompatible with life.” The doctor’s words kept echoing in my head as I held my sobbing wife, Karen, just four days after the birth of our eighth child, Isabella Maria.

Bella was born with three No. 18 chromosomes, rather than the normal two. The statistics were heartbreaking: About 90 percent of children with the disorder, known as trisomy 18, die before or during birth, and 90 percent of those who survive die within the first year.

Bella was baptized that day, and then we spent every waking hour at her bedside, giving her a lifetime’s worth of love and care. However, not only did she not die; she came home in just 10 days.

She was sent home on hospice care, strange as that sounded for a newborn. The hospice doctor visited us the next day and described in graphic detail how Bella would die. In sum, she could die at any time without warning, and the best we could hope for was that she would die of the common cold.

Karen and I discontinued hospice so that we and our amazing doctors, James Baugh and Sunil Kapoor, could get to work focusing on Bella’s health, not her death…

Being the parent of a special child gives one exceptional insight into the negative perception of the disabled among many medical professionals, particularly when they see your child as having an intellectual disability. Sadly, we discovered that not only did we have to search for doctors who had experience with trisomy 18. We also had to search for those who saw Bella not as a fatal diagnosis, but as a wanted and loved daughter and sister, as well as a beautiful gift from God.

Do read the rest!

For related commentary please revisit:
We Didn’t Terminate Because He’s Our Son
Love Makes Suffering Bearable

Interesting: For Debate: Continuing with pregnancy after a diagnosis of lethal abnormality: experience of five couples and recommendations for management

“Babies” to Premier this Weekend! *Updated

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Oh, the cuteness of babies! The movie many pro-lifers have been anxious to see is finally coming out this weekend – just in time for Mother’s Day! It’s only a limited release so I was excited to find out that it will be playing at a movie theater near me. I’ll be going with my sister to see it on Saturday:

Will any of you be able to see it this weekend? If so, please stop by here and let me know what you thought!

**Update: Thomas Peters has an early review

Confessions of a Lazy Pro-Life Blogger

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Lazy BloggerDear readers, I know I haven’t been totally neglecting to feed the blog monster lately. But over the past week there have been several significant stories/articles that have caught my eye that I have wanted to, but failed to share with you here. I wish I had a better excuse, but unfortunately I can’t blame it on anything other than just sheer laziness. I procrastinate like it’s my job. So, here is my attempt to play a little catch-up and hopefully I’ll get back on track soon:

–Who has not heard of the heartbreaking, horrifying story of the infant found abandoned in an Italian hospital nearly two days after surviving and abortion attempt? Jill Stanek notes that this kind of thing still happens everyday here in our own country despite the Born Alive Infant Protection Act, which our President opposed when he was a Senator in IL.

The NIH make 13 More ESC lines available for Federal funding. I haven’t heard a lot of buzz about this story – not that it’s a big shocker, of course. What kills me here is that, despite having the least restrictive laws when it comes to stem cell research, people still consider research in this country “hindered” – all because the taxpayers are not funding it enough! (see video below)

N.J. court to rule whether hospitals may refuse life support despite wishes of families, patients I’ve also not heard a lot of pro-life chatter about this story, but I find it a bit alarming.

Kos Article Says Number of Abortions May be ‘Too Low’ Yes, that’s right, 1.21 million abortions a year is not enough for Daily Kos writer Aimee Thorne-Thomsen. As Regular Guy Paul would say, “Please, tell me again how no one is pro-abortion.”

–Live Action recalls a bone chilling court examination of abortionist Dr. Stephen T. Chasen in which he says he has absolutely no concern for the life of the unborn child when he crushes its skull during a late term abortion. Well, that pretty much goes without saying dontcha think?

–Newsweek ran a cushy four-page conversation with several pro-abortion leaders on The Future of the Abortion-Rights Movement. Setting aside the fact that there’s no way in hell Newsweek would give the same amount of exposure to a bunch of pro-life leaders, … One of the things they seemed most concerned about was the lack of outspoken pro-choice men. I’m sorry, aren’t these the same people who, for 30 years have been telling men that they have no say in the matter whatsoever? Jill Stanek muses on this … in her most recent WND column.

–Planned Parenthood credits the passage of health care reform for the opening of its new abortion clinic in Michigan. Thomas Peters discusses what the pro-life movement should learn from this.

–Bishop Slattery on suffering:

We must come to understand how it is that suffering can reveal the mercy of God and make manifest among us the consoling presence of Jesus Christ, crucified and now risen from the dead.

Do read the whole thing

–I finally started reading Dean Koontz’ Frankenstein series about transhumanism, the dedication page of which reads:

For the power of man to make himself what he pleases means, as we have seen, the power of some men to make other men what they please.
-C.S. Lewis, The Abolition of Man

Tell me that doesn’t make you think, at least a little bit, about the recent news out of the UK about scientists cloning 3-parent embryos. I must admit, I’ve never read a Dean Koontz novel before, but I’m enjoying the first book so far. Related: read this NCReg. interview with Koontz about his faith and the preface he wrote to Wesley Smith’s latest book: A Rat is a Pig is a Dog is a Boy: The Human Cost of the Animal Rights Movement.

–and finally: Creative Minority Report’s Matthew Archibold writes at the National Catholic Register: The City of Philadelphia is in the Business of Killing Babies. This will get your blood boiling.

Bonus video:
Thanks to Rebecca Taylor for digging up this video – which I’m pretty sure I’ve posted here before. It accompanies the second story I posted above quite nicely:

TOB Tuesday: Hope!

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Relying on the same disposition of the personal subject, thanks to which man fully finds himself through a sincere gift of self (Gaudium et Spes, 24:3), man (male and female) is able to choose the personal gift of self to another person in the conjugal covenant, in which they become “one flesh,” and he is able to renounce freely such a gift of self to another person, in order that by choosing continence “for the kingdom of heaven” he may give himself totally to Christ. On the basis of the same disposition of the personal subject and on the basis of the same spousal meaning of being, as a body, male and female, there can be formed the love that commits man to marriage for the whole duration of his life (Mt. 19:3-9), but there can be formed also the love that commits man for his whole life to continence “for the kingdom of heaven” (Mt. 19:11-12). This is what Christ speaks about in his whole statement addressed to the Pharisees (Mt. 19:3-9) and then to the disciples (Mt. 19:11-12).
–John Paul II — General Audience 4/28/82 (TOB 80:6)

When I went to our local Carmelite Monastery recently I was so pleasantly surprised to find that Mass that day was also the “veiling” ceremony for their newest, and youngest, Bride of Christ, Sr. Johanna Marie

Sr. Johanna
An unmarried woman or a virgin is anxious about the things of the Lord, so that she may be holy in both body and spirit. (1 Corinthians 7:34)

I don’t know about you, but here in my diocese (Jefferson City, MO) we’re hurting pretty badly for these extraordinary vocations, especially for priests. At Sunday Mass a few weeks ago our pastor informed us that our diocese includes 119 parishes and only 69 priests – the average age of whom is 63. Some blame celibacy and the indiscretions of our Church leaders for this vocations crisis. I think it has more to do with a crisis of sanctity and the “me” generation – people more concerned with pleasing themselves rather than God.

It’s easy to get discouraged, but all is not lost. For me, the veiling of Sr. Johanna was a source of great hope. There may be fewer of them these days than we would like (at least in our part of the world), but young people are still being called and, more importantly, they’re still saying YES! YIM Catholic has more signs of hope.

How many ordinations will there be this year in your diocese? We’ve got two coming up this summer, but nothing after that for quite a while. Do visit our seminarians’ blog!